
Fear
Two years ago, I decided to jump on the word-of-the-year bandwagon. My first year, I chose fear. I wanted to overcome so much fear in my life. Fear of being single and a single mom. Fear of changing jobs. Fear of moving across the country to be closer to my ailing mom and support system. Fear of financial struggles. Fear of starting over. Fear of vulnerability.
Last year, I hadn’t overcome all of that fear but I wanted to bring more positivity in my life, so I chose courage. I overcame career, financial and relationship struggles by conquering problems in my life. I learned to say no.
The power of “No.”
I said no to extra, unpaid duties at my teaching job and no to continuing at a job I hated.
I said no to lower paying jobs and yes to a job that paid more.
I said no to being miserable and stressed to the max. I said no more taking work home when I wasn’t being compensated anymore.
I started saying no to working over unexpectedly, knowing it was date-night or that we had plans to spend family time together.
I said no to work drama and basically lost all of my “work friends.”
I left another toxic environment.
But you know what happened when I started saying no?
I felt empowered, free, and more in control of MY life.
Slowly, I’m becoming a better version of me. I’m learning to define better boundaries with those around me.
Those “friends” I lost? They weren’t really meant for my tribe anyway. Rachel Hollis says that you are a combination of the five people you spend the most time with and I’m decided that I want my five tribe to be successful, energetic, fun-loving and caring people.
Freedom
This year, I am choosing the word FREEDOM.
I have decided that this is the year that I will start working from home.
I declare that this is going to be the best financial year that I have ever had.
2020 means more time for my kids.
This is the year that I take a vacation without stressing about missing work and pay.
This is the year that I create an emergency fund.
This year, I WILL have a savings account.
Fall of 2020, I want to start looking for my OWN home.
This year, I will gain FREEDOM from all of the things I have allowed to hold me back.
2020 is my year, will it be yours?
What is your word of the year? Let me know in the comments!

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